When it comes to marriages in my stories, I enjoy the spontaneous or unusual. Sure, some people may not buy into the romance of it, but I love it. My take on marriage in a romance story is, "Why does there have to be rules?" Little about real-life romance makes sense, so why does it have to always make sense in a book? I say it doesn't, but it turns out that sometimes it does. Right about now you could be wondering what I'm yammering on about, but here's the thing--readers want the "happily ever after" ending. When we fail to deliver, we hear about it. BUT, yes, you had to know that was coming, when we give them too much of "happily ever after" we hear about that too. When we make something completely implausible, we hear about that. If it's way too ordinary, no one is really happy, so where's the middle ground? Heck if I know, but I've learned that most of the time, readers just want a great love story.
My editor pointed out that I like to write spontaneous marriages between strangers, and she's correct, I really do. I'm not fond of two people immediately falling in love--really how often does that happen. I also don't want every marriage to be arranged (as was often the norm in earlier periods). So, how do I find the balance? Well, if it hadn't been pointed out to me, I may have continued bringing couples together in the same way, book after book, and what's the fun in that? (You don't have to answer). By pointing this out, my editor inadvertently got my brain cells working in overdrive and after a moment of thought, BAM! a new storyline. I get to keep my somewhat spontaneous marriage (with a twist) and the readers get their happy ending.
What is your take on marriages and relationships in romance novels? Do you like instant love, last-minute marriages, long courtships?
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